Things, nobody will tell you about being an ABDL
(doesn’t apply to everyone. hope you’re all open minded enough to laugh about this)
You are really 100% comfortable with what you do? Amazing!!! But trust me, at one point you will start to feel ashamed. Because the whole community keeps telling you over and over and over again “There is nothing to be ashamed of.”. So even if you are like me, 100% fine with it, you will come to a point where you think “Wait… so there is something to be ashamed of after all? What.. No…”. Welcome to reverse shaming. Where people say it’s okay so often, you’ll get confused with why.
So you like wearing diapers. Often. Maybe 24/7. You will most likely use (wet, maybe mess) them and don’t lie about it, many of us enjoy the wet feeling of it. So, unless you have magical super skin, at one point or another you will get rashes down your private area. Have fun!
This will happen to you. Trust me. Unless it already did. You see something you want and before buying it you calculate, how many diapers you could buy instead of that. You may even say “Nah, not buying this, I’d rather have the 6 diapers this money could get me.”
You know how to trigger yourself into getting into little space. Well, that’s awesome. But at one point or another you will find yourself in a public situation where you accidently speak in your baby voice, giggle way too loud over something funny/ cute or you will get stares, because the diaper you though was invisible, isn’t. Sure, some of us do not mind those things at all, but if you do: Beware.
If you are open about what you like/ do either in public or online, someone will call you pedophile. No matter whether you are a Daddy, Mommy, little, baby or whatever, this is going to happen. And don’t even try to argue back, it’s a waste of time.
Not sure this applies for males as well as females, but if you enjoy shopping, this is most likely going to happen: You will find yourself in the kids/ baby section of food stores, fashion stores and anything else that is related to kids. If you’re crazy like me, you may even consider losing half your weight (which is never going to happen, you’ll die before this happens), just to fit into kids clothes, completely ignoring the fact, that you are to tall for it, even, if you were super slim. Five minutes later you’ll buy ice cream. Because you are little and littles need ice cream more than they need cute clothing.
For females only. Kinda.
Ever been to a public restroom? Sure you have. And do you know what’ll become very attracting to you now? The changing table for kids. Some of these are in regular stores as well, with free diapers for babys. Don’t try to steal them. I know it’s hard. But dude, that’s like … not nice.
Welcome to the world of ABDL!